Spice Up Your New Year's Eve with Couples Sex Toys

Bringing a toy into the bedroom is one of the easiest ways for a couple to add novelty, closeness and a bit of fun. Couples toys are designed to be shared, so the pleasure is mutual rather than one sided, and there is an option for every comfort level. This guide walks through the main types, how to choose one together, and how to enjoy them, with real examples from the couples range at Playmate. Whether it is date night, an anniversary or an ordinary Tuesday, a shared toy is a lovely way to connect.

Why couples toys are worth trying

A toy is not a sign that anything is missing. For most couples it is simply a new way to enjoy each other, and it takes the pressure off one person to be the entertainment. Shared toys can make it easier for a partner to reach climax, add a spark to a long relationship, and open up honest, playful conversations about what you both like. Reframing a toy as an addition rather than a replacement takes the nervousness out of it, and most couples find the second time feels completely natural. Far from creating distance, exploring together tends to build trust and closeness, because you are being open with each other about what you enjoy.

The main types of couples toy

• Vibrating cock rings. Worn during sex, these keep the wearer firmer while a small motor buzzes against the partner, so you both feel it. A perfect low pressure starting point.
• Couples vibrators. Designed to be worn during sex, they stimulate both partners at once and often come with a remote for hands free control.
• Remote and app controlled toys. One partner holds the control, which turns a toy into a playful, teasing shared experience, even out of the house.
• Bullets and small vibrators. Simple, affordable and easy to bring into foreplay together.
• Strap-ons and dildos. For couples wanting to explore new dynamics together.

Choosing one together

Half the fun is choosing as a pair. Browse online side by side, with no one watching, and point at what appeals while ruling out what does not. Aim for something that involves both of you rather than only one, at least to begin with, and keep your first choice simple and external. Agreeing on it together means you both arrive at the moment feeling comfortable and a little excited, which matters far more than the toy itself.

Easy first couples toys

Overcoming first time nerves

It is normal to feel a little shy the first time, and the easiest cure is to keep it light. Treat the first session as a relaxed experiment with no expectations, laugh if it feels awkward, and remember your partner is very likely feeling the same mix of curiosity and nerves. Starting with something small and external, rather than the most adventurous option, keeps the pressure low. The nerves fade fast once you realise how ordinary and enjoyable it is, and most couples wonder afterwards what they were worried about.

A toy for every budget

You do not need to spend a lot to share something new. A simple bullet or a basic vibrating ring costs very little and is a perfect way to test the water together. Mid range couples vibrators and remote toys offer more features and hands free fun, while premium models add app control and stronger, quieter motors. The best approach for most couples is to start affordable, learn what you both enjoy, and invest in something nicer later once you know what you are looking for. Every price point here still ships in the same plain, discreet packaging.

Setting the scene

A shared toy lands best when the moment feels relaxed. You do not need anything elaborate, just some unhurried time, privacy and no pressure to reach a particular finish. Warm up as you normally would, keep lubricant within reach, and treat the toy as one part of the evening rather than the whole point. A shared laugh at the first fumble is part of the fun, so keep it playful. Dim the lights, put on some music, silence your phones, and give yourselves permission to slow right down and simply enjoy each other's company.

Make it a special occasion

Couples toys are brilliant for marking an occasion, whether that is an anniversary, a birthday, a reunion after time apart, or a New Year's Eve you want to remember. A remote toy adds a thread of anticipation through a night out, and a new toy unwrapped together makes a cheeky, memorable gift. You do not need a reason, but a special date is a lovely excuse to try something new as a couple. Planning it a little in advance, choosing the toy together and looking forward to it can be almost as much fun as the night itself, and it turns an ordinary celebration into one you will both remember for the right reasons.

Toys for long distance couples

If you spend time apart, app and remote controlled toys are a genuine gift. Many modern toys can be controlled over the internet, so a partner can take the reins from another city or another country, turning a video call into something far more intimate. It is a lovely way to stay connected through work trips, study or a long distance relationship. Look for a toy that pairs with a phone app, and agree on the ground rules together first so it stays fun and comfortable for you both.

Comfort, consent and communication

The golden rule with any shared toy is that both partners should be genuinely keen. Talk about what you are each curious about beforehand, agree that either of you can pause or stop at any time, and check in during play. A no to one idea is not a no to everything, and there is always plenty else to explore together. Enthusiasm on both sides is what turns a toy from a slightly awkward experiment into a highlight, so keep the conversation open and kind.

Cleaning and care

Look after shared toys and they will look after you. Wash them with warm water and a mild toy cleaner before and after each use, and dry them fully before storing. Use water based lubricant with silicone toys so you do not damage them, keep water away from charging ports, and store everything somewhere cool and dry. A condom over a shared toy is a simple, hygienic option when you want it.

Where to go next

New to sharing toys? Our guide on introducing toys to a partner covers the conversation, and our cock rings guide and guide to vibrations go deeper on popular couples toys. When you are ready, browse the couples collection, the couples vibrators or the couples cock rings. Everything ships in plain, discreet packaging.