Strap On Dildos & Harnesses

Strap on dildos and harnesses for couples, lesbian play and pegging, sent from New Zealand in plain packaging. Choose a ready to wear kit with the dildo included, a harness that holds two dildos, or a harness on its own for a dildo you already own. Prices run from $35.99 to $125.98.

Strap on kits with the dildo included

New to strap on play? The Strap On Pleasures Dildo & Belt ($49.99) pairs an adjustable belt with a 4.3 inch silicone dildo, a manageable size for a first try. For something bigger, our harness bundles use dildos with a suction cup base that lock into the harness ring: the 8-Inch Dildo & Strap-on Bundle ($84.98), the 7.8 Inch Dildo & Strap-On Belt Bundle ($89.98) and the Dildo 10.2 Inch & Strap-On Bundle ($94.98). The largest set is the Huge 12.2-Inch Dildo & Strapon Bundle ($125.98).

Double dildo harnesses for women

These harnesses carry two dildos, one for the wearer and one for a partner, so both of you feel it. The Strap-On Delight Double-Dildo Female Harness ($63.99) pairs a 7.2 inch and a 4.9 inch dildo. The Strap-On Play Double Dildo Female Harness ($74.99) has a ribbed 6.4 inch and 4.7 inch pair in purple silicone.

Harness only, or a strap on that vibrates

Already have a favourite dildo? The Strap On Harness (Garment Only) ($39.99) is adjustable and made for dildos with a suction cup base, held in place by a metal or silicone ring; most of our dildos range fits. The Strap On Fantasy Vibrator ($59.99) adds remote controlled vibration and runs on two AA batteries. For a small starter dildo, the Strap-On Joy Dildo is 3.9 inches and $35.99.

How to choose a strap on

Size. If either of you is new to strap on play, start with a dildo around 4 inches and size up later. Each product page lists the dildo length and width.

Material. Silicone dildos are soft and easy to clean. PVC and TPE dildos are firmer and cost less.

Fit. The straps adjust, so one harness can be shared between partners of different sizes.

Lube and cleaning. Use a water based lubricant with silicone toys, and wash the dildo after every use with a sex toy cleaner.

Strap on guides

Our strap on dildos beginner's guide covers getting started, and the guide to choosing and using a strap on goes into more detail. For more ideas, read sex toys for lesbians.